Lunch with a girlfriend.
Hotel room service.
Isn’t it such a treat when you get to have these little indulgences?
With two little ones, these kinds of personal indulgences are few and far between. These days I truly savor 30 minutes on Pinterest or reading blogs with a cup of coffee and a sweet treat (preferably Pepperidge Farm® Milano® cookies). I find that giving myself these little indulgences in my busy week really get me recharged for the crazy day ahead.
As you know we recently took our ten-year anniversary trip.
It. Was. FABULOUS.
But as with anything, all good things must come to an end, and on the last day I found myself already dreaming of our next trip. Although we made a commitment to not let ten years go by again before our next getaway, I had serious vacation blues when we got home. Vacation blues are real, y’all!
It was so great to get away but having a little space made me realize how demanding two little ones really are. As I was talking to my mom about it, I was reminded of so many other mothers out there that struggle with finding “me” time. Struggle to take that daily shower. Struggle to get dinner on the table, let alone something healthy.
So while I dream of our next true getaway, in the meantime I am committing to myself to allow more daily “getaways”. Enjoy a little daily indulgence.
I find that I am kind of a busy body. I mean, multi-tasking might as well be my middle name. I go go go go go. It is definitely a great feeling at the end of the day when I have accomplished a lot, but I never allow myself a guilt-free few moments to just “be”.
I’d love for you to join me in my new daily mantra-
But First, Coffee.
Allowing myself those ten minutes to just relax and enjoy the nothing. Ten minutes a day to truly stop. No blogging, no texting, no emails.
Just a good old cup of coffee (or water! or whatever), my thoughts and some Dulce de Leche Milano cookies. With a side of ZERO GUILT!
What do you think, are you up for the challenge? If so, Pepperidge Farm® Milano® cookies can help! They are giving away a $100 VISA gift card! Just leave a comment telling me how you take time for yourself and you will be automatically entered for a chance to win! Be sure to check out their Facebook page too: http://goo.gl/VDt5JJ
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erika says
I'm not able to very often, but sometimes, just going through the Starbucks drive-thru is a big treat!
chambanachik(at)gmail(dot)com
Lisa Brown says
I like to make coffee, grab a good book and just read and relax.
Lisa Brown says
tweet https://twitter.com/LuLu_Brown24/status/572492984744165376
steve weber says
I take time for myself by going for a nice long walk.
Betsy Barnes says
I like to cook. It is a great way for me to relax, listening to music and creating a new dish for my family.
Betsy Barnes says
My tweet — https://twitter.com/bbdream34/status/572505999942262784
Elena says
I like to read a book and enjoy a cup of coffee
elena150980@yahoo.com
Elena says
https://twitter.com/ElenaIstomina/status/572512884367892481
Mami2jcn says
I like to stop and enjoy an iced tea.
mami2jcn at gmail dot com
Mami2jcn says
tweet–https://twitter.com/mami2jcn/status/572513348115415040
kellyr78 says
I take time for myself by going on nature walks.
kellywcu8888ATgmailDOTcom
kellyr78 says
tweet
https://twitter.com/Kellydpa/status/572547069728186369
kellywcu8888ATgmailDOTcom
lil_lady_dz says
I Like to take time for myself by going to the local coffee shop and enjoying some fresh coffee and do some writing.
Nicole.ddziedzic at gmail dot com
lil_lady_dz says
Tweeted: https://twitter.com/lil_lady_dz/status/572552029031153664
Nicole.ddziedzic at gmail dot com
Erin Wirsing says
Right now, I "go to bed early" and watch Alias on the iPad.
Natalie says
I make time for myself by getting up early in the morning to work out at the gym. It gives me energy and peace. yarbr012atgmaildotcom
Natalie says
https://twitter.com/yarbr012/status/572586448739680256 yarbr012atgmail.com
Kristen says
I like to take my dogs to the park. The fresh air, moderate exercise, people's smiling faces and other cute dogs always make me feel relaxed and happy.
Kristen says
I like to take my dogs to the park. The fresh air, moderate exercise, people's smiling faces and other cute dogs always make me feel relaxed and happy.
Kristen says
https://twitter.com/rubylorikeet/status/572685537670127616
Julie Wood says
I take time for myself by meditating and doing yoga! This really helps me focus and remain calm during my day!
jewelwood55(at)gmail(dot)com
Julie Wood says
Tweet entry
https://twitter.com/JewelWood/status/572771114323079170
Lauren Kate says
After my son goes to bed, I take me time by either reading or watching TV!
One Frugal Girl says
https://twitter.com/OneFrugalGirl/status/572862966829203456
onefrugalgirl AT gmail DOT com
One Frugal Girl says
Reading. I don’t seem to find the time to do it as often as I would like, but there is nothing better than sitting down with a good book and a large glass of water.
onefrugalgirl AT gmail DOT com
618mom says
I like to go on hikes vandenbossche3@hotmail.com
618mom says
https://twitter.com/618mom23boys/status/573494442314825729 vandenbossche3@hotmail.com
bdiane34 says
I relax by taking a nice warm bath, cuddling up under my blanket and watch my shows.
bdiane34 says
I tweeted https://twitter.com/bdiane35/status/573680038429782017
pqcolletti says
I take time to myself by running on the treadmill.
pqcolletti says
Check out @crunchycolletti's Tweet: https://twitter.com/crunchycolletti/status/573894254126215168?s=09
pqcolletti says
Check out @crunchycolletti's Tweet: https://twitter.com/crunchycolletti/status/573894254126215168?s=09
pqcolletti says
I take time to myself by running on the treadmill.
clc408 says
Once a week I meet some girlfriends for lunch and great conversation. It's really nice to enjoy each other's company and take some time for ourselves.
clc408 says
Tweet
https://twitter.com/clc408/status/574308068743344128
JC says
I take time for myself by practicing yoga.
tcarolinep at gmail dot com
JC says
-https://twitter.com/tcarolinep/status/574426793031024640
MamaStace says
I like to take time for myself by enjoying a warm cup of coffee and a book
Nathansmommy619(At)aol(dot)com
MamaStace says
https://twitter.com/MomOF2Boysz/status/574963178079023104
Nathansmommy619(At)aol(dot)com
Madeline B says
I take time for myself by working in our garden.
madelinebrubaker {at} gmail [dot] com
Madeline B says
Tweet link: https://twitter.com/shala_darkstone/status/575628293191376897
madelinebrubaker {at} gmail [dot] com
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CookieFiend says
a good book and a cup of tea! my morning coffee is too rushed to be relaxing
talyabrea at yahoo dot com
latanya t says
I like taking a walk
dlatany at gmail dot com
latanya t says
https://twitter.com/sweetums82/status/577112183353425920
dlatany at gmail dot com
rachel says
I love to take a walk and just savor the sun.
Howell says
I like to take the time to read before going to sleep. my own quiet time.
Hlee99 at gmail dot com
Howell says
I tweeted at
https://twitter.com/leedhowell/status/579831564504330240
Hlee99 at gmail dot com
Tina says
i take a hot bath and enjoy a glass of wine!
tina19820115@gmail.com
Tina says
https://twitter.com/HappyTina0115/status/580519730118787075
tina19820115@gmail.com
peg42 says
I enjoy waking early in the morning, before the rest of my family and I enjoy relaxing with a cup of tea or two looking at the sunrise outside. Thanks so much.
rickpeggysmith(at)aol(dot)com
peg42 says
Tweeted: https://twitter.com/peg42/status/580794328269885442
Thanks so much.
rickpeggysmith(at)aol(dot)com
Jacquelyn Cannon says
I love watching "The Price is Right" and drinking a cup of coffee.
jackieque@comcast.net
Jacquelyn Cannon says
I love taking long walks after leaving the office.
jackieque@comcast.net
Theron Willis says
I take time by relaxing in a sensory deprivation based flotation tank. That and a weekend bottle of Merlot.
Denise S. says
I like to read in bed at the end of the day while eating treats.
lazybones344 at gmail dot com
Sandy Klocinski says
I say no to anything that is not important to me. I give myself the permission to focus on what’s important. Getting the unessential responsibilites off my schedule creates some extra time and space
Sandy Klocinski says
https://twitter.com/Attea2d/status/580831633483366400
Kia89 says
I like to take long hot shower.
austma7@aol.com
HilLesha O'Nan says
One of my favorite ways to focus on myself is to get in touch with nature by going for a walk alongside the riverfront or take a walk on one of my favorite trails.
SeasideMermaid@twc.com
nickieisis3 says
A good book, cup of tea and cookie.
chickie717 says
https://twitter.com/chickie717/status/581130899871244288
sarah says
I take time for myself by going on the treadmill every day and watching mindless tv.
stigay at comcast.net
Leela says
A long, hot shower.
Stephanie says
Eating a milk chocolate Milano cookies with a vanilla latte with whip cream!
tvollowitz at aol dot com
Deborah Wellenstein says
I take time for myself by relaxing in a hot bubble bath with a good book and a glass of wine.
Anastasia Falling says
When I take some time to myself, I love to grab some chocolate or yummy cookies and watch a good sci fi movie 🙂 That’s that height of indulgence for me 🙂
anastasia2013@gmail.com
Anastasia Falling says
Tweeted 🙂 – https://twitter.com/Enter_Now/status/581952432361619457
anastasia2013@gmail.com
Gina Wildorchid says
I take a moment in the mornings when everyone is still asleep. I brew a special cup of coffee and enjoy some quiet time. Thanks for the chance to win!
wildorchid985 at gmail dot com
Gina Wildorchid says
tweet–https://twitter.com/WildOrchid985/status/582521176074915840
Elle says
I take time for myself at night with a good book, comfortable PJs and usually a cup of hot cocoa and a snack.
prettyinhotpink6 at gmail dot com
Elle says
Tweet: https://twitter.com/PrettyHotPink6/status/582557056089088001
Rebecca W. says
I enjoy hot baths and chocolate!
Tara Overby says
I take time out for myself by reading while drinking my coffee every morning!
Kim says
I love to go for a little run outside. It helps me to center myself and reminds me of how beautiful this life is.
addictedtorodeo at gmail dot com
Christine says
I like to sit on the couch and think about nothing.
Aleksandra Nearing says
I take time out for myself by making sure I have a daily workout. Taking time to keep fit and healthy makes me feel good.
Becki says
I take an hour before bed to unwind!
Becki says
https://twitter.com/rebeccathomasrd/status/583752905133576192
Barbara Montag says
I like sipping on International Coffee with Milano Cookies or biscotti.
thank you
Barbara Montag says
Tweet https://twitter.com/JalapenoMama/status/584214340942823424
Janice says
A good dessert, listening to my favorite music or reading a good book when I want time for myself.
Janice says
https://twitter.com/disneyfan40/status/584551549050855424
tweety800265(at)yahoo(dot)com
smilekisses says
https://twitter.com/smilekisses/status/584602086295371777
smilekisses says
I enjoy sitting on my porch swing watching and listening to the wildlife.
Rebecca Graham says
I take time for myself by reading a few chapters in a good book and enjoy a cup of coffee with it.
Jennifer W says
I take time for myself by making some fresh coffee and reading blogs 🙂
Katherine Kavouris says
I make breakfast and plan daily activities while watching Live with Kelly and Michael.
LAMusing says
A moment or two at sunset looking at the ocean help me appreciate and reflect. Then – a bubble bath!
Amy says
I love taking time to knit!
Holly B says
tweet!
https://twitter.com/prismperfect/status/586302665056989184
Holly B says
I try to meditate every day!
laroyal says
I go to yoga class three times a week and have nightly tea time.
jtwark says
I taek time with hot tea
JOE GERSCH'
JOEBISSY@Mail.com
D Schmidt mummytotwoboys says
I make time for myself with a cup of tea, a book and of course some cookies
mummytotwoboys@yahoo.com
D Schmidt mummytotwoboys says
tweeted
https://twitter.com/mummytotwoboys1/status/587058795127431171
mummytotwoboys@yahoo.com
Linda C. says
By taking a long hot bath.
Linda C. says
Tweet: https://twitter.com/Lindiac/status/587395035341041664
Nicole Larsen says
I like to go for weekly pedicures and take long baths when the kids are in bed.
pittsy82@hotmail.com
Nicole Larsen says
tweeted https://twitter.com/pittsy82/status/588048115514679296
pittsy82@hotmail.com
Lisa Pecora says
I like to relax on the couch with my cats, a cup of hot chocolate, and a good tv show or movie!
motioncitycutie(at)aol(dot)com
SexyBrat says
I take time to myself surfing the internet.
stOOpidgErL says
I like to take breaks throughout the day with a cup of coffee!
MCantu1019 says
I take a walk to relax.
MCantu1019 at aol dot com
Bert Dadtastic says
I have my "me" time after i take my kids to school, I like to go to the park to read the bible
iamdadtastic@gmail.com
Bert Dadtastic says
tweet https://twitter.com/iamdadtastic/status/591249213498888192
iamdadtastic@gmail.com
AnnaZed says
I like to sit on my patio in the shade reading my Kindle and drink coffee! (and sometimes have cookies too).
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margueritecore [at] gmail [dot] com
AnnaZed says
I posted a tweet too: https://twitter.com/AnnaZed/status/591482301676040195
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margueritecore [at] gmail [dot] com
Emmy Coffee says
I like to get a massage and/or a pedicure
Emmy Coffee says
*tweet, tweet*
https://twitter.com/emmycoffee/status/591224631706529792
Anna Pry says
i tweeted https://twitter.com/thepryfamily2/status/591707909555380225 pryfamily5@gmail.com
Anna Pry says
for me its by reading a good book or taking a bath pryfamily5@gmail.com
girlygirlhoosier52 says
Coffee, cookie and a good book!
Kerry says
I like to fit in a walk every day to take time for myself.
nuthouse(at)centurytel(dot)net
vranab says
Take a nap
Kathleen Porteous says
I take time for myself by taking long hot showers followed by hot cups of tea.
kport207 at gmail dot com
ms-texas says
i take time for myself by relaxing and catching up on my soaps
debbiebellows (at) gmail (dot) com
ms-texas says
i posted a tweet here:
https://twitter.com/bellows22/status/592170967910076417
debbiebellows (at) gmail (dot) com
Tim Allport says
I like to sit and watch some SportsCenter once the kids go to bed.
Tim Allport says
Tweeted:
https://twitter.com/SCDiver00/status/592209617381392384
Kerry says
tweeted: https://twitter.com/KerryBishop/status/592349513307856896
nuthouse(at)centurytel(dot)net
susan1215 says
My favorite way to slow down and take time for me is to read a good book while drinking wine on my deck.
s2s2 at cox dot net
susan1215 says
https://twitter.com/susan1215/status/592496444910792704
s2s2 at cox dot net
Erica C. says
I lay in bed and read.
RICHARD HICKS says
I relax by soaking in a hot tub and listening to music
RICHARD HICKS says
https://twitter.com/ardy22/status/592645469593051136
ellie says
I like to take a long hot bath and read a cozy mystery. It's my favorite way to unwind and take a moment to relax and rejuvenate myself.
eswright18 at gmail dot com
ellie says
tweeted
https://twitter.com/eswright18/status/592848628147998720
eswright18 at gmail dot com
Shappie says
I like to have a smoke and play computer games. Sometimes I'll read and take a bath/watch a movie. Whatever strikes at the moment. Thanks for the giveaway!
Aurelie Red says
After lunch, I like to make coffee and just read a good book !
My email is redaurelie(at)gmail(dot)com
Aurelie Red says
My tweet https://twitter.com/AurelieRed/status/593030161894899712
My email is redaurelie(at)gmail(dot)com
kathy pease says
I like to do some scrapbooking when I want to relax
kathy pease says
https://twitter.com/klp1965/status/593113400772861952
Erica Best says
I LOVE LISTENING TO A BOOK AND PLAYING CANDY CRUSH
Erica Best says
https://twitter.com/purplelover04/status/593116266526810113
Carolyn Daley says
I take time for myself by playing video games or streaming movies and shows on Netflix via the Xbox One.
darkmysticnight(at)hotmail(dot)com
Carolyn Daley says
I tweeted the giveaway. https://twitter.com/DarkMysticNight/status/593136178351616000
slehan says
I relax in the warm swimming pool and reflect on what I'm thankful for.
Thanks for the contest.
slehan at juno dot com
Crystal M says
I cant put a price on the alone time I get while driving to and from work. It's a chance to sing along to the radio, drink my coffee, and reflect on all that is good in my life.
slehan says
https://twitter.com/slehan/status/593232249534881792
slehan at juno dot com
Whitney says
I will take time to myself to take a few minutes and watch TV in bed and relax
wlbellows at gmail dot com
Whitney says
i sent out a tweet: https://twitter.com/electricstar/status/593238682661851136
wlbellows at gmail dot com
Betty C says
A nice long bath with a good book, a cup of coffee and Milano cookies to munch on defines my special time.
Betty C says
Tweet – https://twitter.com/willitara/status/593323449692590080
Kim Hardy says
I read or soak in a bath! ky-grandma40@yahoo.com
saturdaynightfever says
I like to bicycle!
theyyyguy@yahoo.com
Cori Westphal says
I like to go for a long walk or run! Alone!
Cori Westphal says
Tweet: https://twitter.com/coriwestphal/status/593532284470304769
Lisa Voyce says
I'm a long distance backpacker, but I can't always go out for weeks at a time. So, when I need to recharges, I take a little hike in the woods and that'll do the trick.
Jackie Burns says
I like to sit out by the waterfront, and say the rosary.
Annette says
I take time for myself with a cup of coffee or a bubble bath.
Annette says
https://twitter.com/ThatTuxedoCat/status/593661346811682817
Amanda Sakovitz says
i go for a run to have time for myself
POKERGRL8 at gmail.com
Amanda Sakovitz says
https://twitter.com/aes529/status/593725845325373442
POKERGRL8 at gmail.com
Tracey says
I watch the sun rise with a cup of coffee
April says
I get up extra early – before everyone else – so that I can have some quiet time by myself and my cup of coffee. I adore your new mantra; 'But first, Coffee.'
angie lilly says
I try to take time out for me every day. Sometimes it is just viewing my instagram feed and relaxing and enjoying seeing other people's good times and other times it is just lounging in bed with my cats relaxing.
Angie
14earth at gmail dot com
angie lilly says
I tweeted here: https://twitter.com/MsTofuFairy/status/593786772397502464
Angie
14earth at gmail dot com
Lisa Garner says
I take time for myself by setting on my porch swing and reading a book.
Lisa Garner says
I tweeted; https://twitter.com/lisalmg/status/593797456858484737
Francine says
I like to read a book to relax.
Thomas Murphy says
To take time for myself I go for a walk outside.
rounder9834 @yahoo.com
Thomas Murphy says
tweeted
https://twitter.com/thomasmurphy40/status/593847865769914369
rounder9834 @yahoo.com
Seyma Bennett Shabbir says
I love to call my friends and go out for sushi dinner and then go out for coffee or tea!
Seyma Bennett Shabbir says
https://twitter.com/SeymaShabbir/status/593851644187713536
seyma_bennett@hotmail.com
DistractedMommy says
My hubby built me a wooden swing in the back yard…I love to swing out there and reflect.
shiebs24 at gmail.com
DistractedMommy says
https://twitter.com/shiebs24b/status/593855507527507970
shiebs24 at gmail.com
Buddy Garrett says
I take time for myself by going on walks.
Jerry Marquardt says
I like to go out and take photographs and enjoy the outdoors to relax.
Jerry Marquardt says
I publicly Tweeted this giveaway: https://twitter.com/versatileer/status/593885207335411712
Kathryn C says
I try to regularly treat myself to a facial or a pedicure
#SweepstakesEntry
KC
kacor7@hotmail.com
Kathryn C says
my #SweepstakesEntry tweet:
https://twitter.com/thrincor/status/593887473043898368
KC
kacor7@hotmail.com
Sherry Conrad says
I like to get out and play with the dogs. It both relaxes me and revs me up so I am ready to face whatever comes my way.
Sherry Conrad says
Here is my tweet link: https://twitter.com/dddiva/status/593895295106224128
discriminating_diva at yahoo dot com
Tabathia B says
I love to read, eat something sweet and enjoy it with a glass of sweet tea
tbarrettno1 at gmail dot com
Tabathia B says
tweet https://twitter.com/ChelleB36/status/593896409755168769
tbarrettno1 at gmail dot com
Charity/CC says
Meditation and prayer works for me.
Charity/CC says
http://twitter.com/ccboobooy/status/593925224376180736
steve weber says
tweet- https://twitter.com/groogruxking40/status/593966839782199296
Heidi says
I love to get a pedicure or facial as a treat for me during "my time".
Heidi says
Twitter Entry https://twitter.com/zanderbear/status/593968724299935744
Ellen says
I like to read a book with a cup of tea.
Ellen says
https://twitter.com/usnamom2014/status/593978814390214656
Birdie Bee says
Tweeted.
https://twitter.com/birdiebee52/status/593984300426481664
wigget says
I like to take a hot shower and sing at the top of my lungs